Friday, March 13, 2009

Ten things about lies

1.               Lying is the number one reason that people lose trust.

2.               The most common reason that people lie is to avoid confrontation

3.               Another common reason people lie is to make themselves seem "better" or more interesting. This sort of lying can be a sign of low self esteem, problems at home, or depression.

4.               Lies are like dominos - one lie can knock out whole relationships, destroy entire aspects of your life or even limit your future in unforeseeable ways.

5.               Lies are a gamble. Every time you lie you gamble with being caught.

6.               Lies have a way of getting out and coming back to haunt you.

7.               The worst lies are the ones you tell yourself. When you lie to others you are also lying to yourself.

8.               Chronic lying can signal a psychiatric or social disorder.

9.               Lies can damage your self image and cause inner conflicts (like dissonance) that drastically change the way you view, and act upon, the world and other people.

10.             "Little white lies" are lies that are told about superficial things and are told when the truth would only serve to hurt another person. 

(These lines are reproduced!)

No matter what the lie is, the truth speaks out. To be humiliated by the compounding effect of the lies that constantly feedy your ears will definetly affect you!

Ps: I'll be away from the online world for a while,  a personal reason. Take care all. 


12 comments:

Sekibuhchhuak said...

Dik hlawm hle mai !
Break i la dawn maw ? a tah lam zawnga break la i nih ka beisei.

Ka blog-ah ka lo link che a nia.

Zorami said...

I like this post cuz i need it(I'm a chronic liar!) :DD
So u'll b away for a while? then looks like the blogging world's gona miss u for a while...take cr too!

Mizohican said...

Hei take care bro, hope to see you back online soon.

Yea I agree, lying screws up an entire relationship if some part of it was build on lies. Better come clean in the beginning before starting any relationship. The person above me is a chronic liar but thankfully I'm not like her :-P lolz, *hugs zoram*. And of course *hugs, bro*.

hugs vek ta sa sa, *hugs sekibuhchhuak* :D

burgerstud2005 said...

Va ngaihawm dawn ve leee...i dam thin re re em...

vana said...

Hman zuai e :).
@Sekibuhchhuak i ti ropui e. Thnx
@Zorami, miss me :).TY
@illusionaire, Champions leagues next session in khelh theih nan duhsakna ka hlan a che.
@buggerstudd2005, i reh vang vang a, lo lang leh hlawl thin. I tello chuan sera mu kan thur theilo a nih hi. Ka dam tha e.

He blog "10 things about lies" hi naupanlai a dawt min hriltu, ka hmu a, tun hun thlenga ka rin tawh loh zia ka hrechhuak a, google zuai a, post chhawng kual vel nih hi.

I saw a cheater, doll face cheater today :(. Why would she need to cheat with such a face :). Exam na a entawn hi ka ngei zawng tak.

Hna hi a tam a nih hi. In blog ka chhiar hman dawn silo a, ka inthlahrung in online vakloh ka tum ta rih a nih hi. Break ngai ve hrim hrim bawk a :)

Zorami said...

@Illusionaire : Lying is contagious *virus successfully transmitted thru that hug* :PP

Calliopia said...

vana, sas exam a entawn i man elo? Keipoh tiang mi hi ka huat zawng tak an nia. Exam hall a cheat duh chu nakin hnua corrupt ber tur ka ti thin. Ka strict thei rap, min ngei thei ltk zawk!

faka said...

Mark Twain khan, "A man is never more truthful than when he acknowledges himself a liar," a lo ti a. Dawt hi vawikhat na reng reng chu kan sawi theuh mai zawng a nih hi. Dawt var kan tih te, Mizo thu khuh tawngkam te hi 'dawt pawi lo deuh' an ni tihna nge, 'ni chu ni, ni lo chu ni lo' kan ti dawn?

burgerstud2005 said...

E kha..i rawn offline toh lo maw.Ualkham back...happy blogging again.

Unknown said...

Lies, Lies, Lies...It is motivated by the 'Me, Myself & I' selfishness...Exam hall a cheat duh chu mahni inhmangaih lutuk na a ni chawk e, ka dem lo e keichuan,k hrethiam fu zawk a ni!!..hehe..but it is dishonest, i know, and that is one of the ugly faces of human nature!..it is also motivated by survival instinct..everything has two sides... its complicated, life is complicated...neih nuaih ah!

vana said...

Ka hman deuh ta e. work pressure nen, in lamah lah hna tam pui in min hmuah bawk chuan thiante blog chhiar hmanloh chang a tam si a, ka in thlahrung thin hle mai. Nuam ka tih em em chu, thiante hian he hringnun lamtluang a in thil tawn hriat in ziah te chhiar hi a ni.

Unknown said...

dik hlom hle mai heheheheee